Frequently Asked Questions

  • Anyone who is curious. You don't need any personal experience or  professional background in end-of-life care to attend. We welcome anyone who wants to think more openly about mortality and what it means to live well. As well as family caregivers, people navigating their own illness or a loved one's, those who are grieving, clergy and ministry leaders, healthcare workers, doulas, and funeral professionals.

  • Not specifically, but it's hard to think honestly about mortality and death without involving values and beliefs. Our speakers intentionally represent a range of perspectives and religious beliefs, and our hope is to create a space where all people can be held with openness and respect. Wherever you're coming from, we invite you to bring your whole self, your questions, fears, and faith system included.

  • No, people of all faiths and no faith are warmly welcome, and you’re invited to choose the breakouts that fit you. Most sessions are practical, clinical, creative, or contemplative in a broader sense. Some sessions draw on the Christian tradition and speak directly to practicing Christians – these will be clearly indicated as such in the title or descriptions.

  • Many people come to this gathering carrying a loss, and we hope you'll find it a gentle and supportive space. Conversations will touch on death directly, so we encourage you to take care of yourself: step out whenever you need to, and choose sessions that feel right for where you are. The Reflection Room will be available throughout the day for those who need quiet and to step aside, and death doulas trained in grief support will be on hand to support.

  • We would love for this summit to be accessible to everyone. If cost is a barrier, please reach out to hello@heretohonor.com—we’re happy to explore further scholarship options with you.

  • No, we will close registration on Wednesday, Nov 4th and not offer ticket sales at the door. We’re nearly at capacity, and this ensures we have time to prepare the space, materials, and catering for a hospitable and welcoming experience for all.

  • Tickets are non-refundable. However, if you are no longer able to attend, please let us know at hello@heretohonor.com in case we’re able to release your spot to someone from the waiting list. We’d be happy to issue you a refund in that case. You're also welcome to transfer your ticket to a friend, though name tags and check-in will be in the name of the original purchaser.

  •  You'll select one session for each of the three breakout blocks when you register. We’ll close registration for a session once it reaches maximum capacity. 

  • We will ask you to select breakout sessions during the registration process simply to help us track interest and headcount, but attendance is not required. You are absolutely welcome to step away as needed and desired, either to the Reflection Room or outside for some fresh air. The Reflection Room is a dedicated space for quiet processing that will be available to you during the full event. Please take care of yourself!

  •  Yes, you're free to come and go as you need, though we hope you'll stay for the full arc of the day. Only full-day tickets are available.

  • Sessions are in person only, to protect the intimacy of the conversations.

  • Yes, a communal lunch is included and is one of the heart moments of the day. You can note dietary restrictions when registering. We'll offer vegetarian, vegan, and gluten-free options. Our apologies in advance if we’re not able to accommodate more specific dietary needs.

  • Yes, a photographer will be capturing the day. Moments of private or personal sharing will not be photographed. As part of registration, we’ll ask you to sign a photography release form. These photos will only be used to share the spirit of the event in recaps (on our website and social media) and on the website for future summits.

  • Yes, sponsors and speakers will have information on local services and support they offer.

  • E91 is an ADA compliant building, and all floors are wheelchair accessible.

  • We'd value having you alongside us. Email hello@heretohonor.com to learn about sponsorship opportunities.

  • The summit is co-presented by All's Well Initiative, Goldenwood, and Here to Honor, in partnership with local end-of-life organizations, practitioners, and churches.

  • Reach out anytime at hello@heretohonor.com.

Community Guidelines

Please help us create a gathering where each person feels welcome, respected, and encouraged to show up as they are.

  • Welcome everyone. Life & Death in NYC draws people together of all backgrounds, identities, beliefs, and experiences. We are here to cultivate an inclusive space where everyone feels they belong.

  • Respect diverse perspectives. There will be many cultural, religious, spiritual, professional, and personal experiences represented in our conversations about life and death today. May we stay curious, listen with humility, and make room for perspectives that differ from our own.

  • Build relationships, not just networks. We are here to learn about one another and build genuine connections. We are not here to promote our business, sell services, recruit clients, or distribute unsolicited marketing materials, but to build relationships that will grow naturally from shared learning and mutual interest.

  • Share and receive with care. Personal stories and reflections, especially around death, grief, and caregiving can leave us feeling vulnerable. Let us maintain a comfort level by honoring one another’s privacy, asking permission before sharing any one’s story, and respecting each person's choice about what they do or don't wish to share. Participation is always an invitation, never an obligation. Conversations about mortality can bring up personal, emotional, and sometimes difficult experiences. May we meet one another with compassion, without feeling the need to offer advice or solutions.

  • Recognize inequities and honor lived experiences. Our experiences of death, dying, grief, and caregiving are shaped by our identities, communities, and access to resources. Be mindful of inequities, avoid stereotypes, and remain open to learning from experiences different from your own. 

Our hope for this gathering is that we leave today with not only insight and information but also with a deeper sense of connection, stronger community ties, and the relationships and resources that will continue to sustain us long after the event has ended.